ABSOLUTELY NOT™ | Firm Roller, Grounding + Boundaries

For holding your line without spending the energy to defend it.

ABSOLUTELY NOT™ | Firm Roller, Grounding + Boundaries

I kept noticing a specific kind of drain. People who knew the answer was no and said yes anyway, because the energy required to hold the boundary outweighed the cost of crossing it. Boundaries aren't the problem. The depletion required to enforce them is.

I built this to lower that cost. Cedarwood, vetiver, and guaiacwood chosen because they're dense, deep, and quiet. Not sharp. Not aggressive. Just immovable. The olfactory equivalent of a locked door, present without announcing itself.

Scent Profile

Old-growth cedar as the structural spine. Raw vetiver pulled straight from the earth. Guaiacwood smoke as a low, steady weight underneath. Holds its ground without raising its voice.

The Protocol

Roll onto pulse points before the high-stakes call, the conversation you've been putting off, or any room where your space is non-negotiable. Press your wrists together once, do not rub. Inhale slowly. Let the roots do the work. Then go.

Ingredients

Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride, Simmondsia Chinensis (Jojoba) Seed Oil, Prunus Amygdalus Dulcis (Sweet Almond) Oil, Vitis Vinifera (Grapeseed) Seed Oil, Ricinus Communis (Castor) Seed Oil, Tocopherol, Proprietary Essential Oil Blend (Cedarwood Atlas, Vetiver, Guaiacwood).

For external use only. Avoid contact with eyes. Discontinue use if irritation occurs.

Small-batch · Houston, TX · Considered dilution · Cruelty-free · External use

After holding the boundary, clear the residue.
UNDER NEW MANAGEMENT™ clears what that interaction left on you.